Crazy Christian and the Atheist....

Dear Diary,

I have had some interesting dates lately and so have my girlfriends.  One of girls was so similar to my recent fiasco that I must share it with you! SO- I assume you remember my last entry about the atheist. If not here is the catch up- went out with an atheist. Basicly, I could work with him if he was open to consider other view points but he was not. In his mind we are nothing but plant food and all those enlightened Buddhists are full of shit too. "I'm not buying it," he said. SO I had to say goodbye and put it out there that just friends is the only relationship I am capable of having with someone who has polar opposite beliefs as me.
Funny thing happened right around the same time. My neighbor who is awesome, went out a few times with this super cool guy.  They totally hit it off from the start. Date four comes and he takes her to lunch with his brother and his girlfriend. They have a blast and when he drops her back at home he tells her there is something he needs to talk to her about. It went something to the effect of this- "I need to be honest with you. I am really getting into Christianity and believe every word in the bible to be true." Okay, not ideal but I am always down to get behind finding one's spirituality. Mine is a very important part of my life. I pray/meditate daily. He then proceeds to say this: "I believe the Apocalypse is coming in January 2013 and I don't see the point of getting into anything serious right now. I mean you're a great girl and I want to friends, but I just thought you needed to know where I am coming from." SAY WHAT? LMFAO! Because he was dead serious, I think honestly that could be the funniest dating conversation I have ever heard of. I have heard lame excuses to end things but the Apocalypse? Really? So there you have it; I get the atheist and she gets Apocalypse guy.  Weird month for dating in Hollywood I tell you! Even more so then regular-
Happy Dating!

Love ya!
VK

Boy do I need to catch up on my Blogging!

Dear Diary,

Things have been crazy in my world these last few weeks!!  I have so much to tell you. Keep posted in the next week I will be catching up on all the unreported details of my dating world.

So, I met a really sweet guy at a networking function. We have gone out a few times.  He is from Australia and wicked cute. He is a total gentleman, gives great advice, is close with his family, is as driven as me with his career, dresses nice and is fun to hang out with. We have been out a few times and still haven't done anything but make out a bit and that is fine with me. I am taking it slow with guys these days. I am pulling an Adan from Sex and the City and waiting till I see a future with someone before I really hook up. This going well, it actually gives you a lot more power then I am use to and that is nice. On our last date he dropped some knowledge that I am sad to hear and unsure what to do with. He told me that he doesn't believe in God because he is an atheist.  Awe Man!!! Really? It totally sucks because he is soooooo nice, cute and fun! Does there always have to be a catch? Now, I am not the most conventional Christian out there by any stretch of the imagination but I definitely have my convictions. I owe all my success to my connection with God and our co-creation of my life. I have very new age beliefs in my practices but one beacon of my strength is that there is God with a never ending energy source of Love and Healing available to you when ever you ask for it. But somehow, this guy honestly thinks when we  die we are plant food. What do I do with this information? Should i walk away or should I try to educate him on my beliefs and convictions.  Maybe we met so I could persuade him to come back to the light? Why is it that instead of walking away from anything or anyone damaged I always find it my responsibility to fix them? I don't know the answers to these questions but I do know I am going out with him one more time.  I am just going to be honest and really asses what is going on with him and his beliefs and go from there. He is so cool that at the very least maybe we can transition our relationship to being just friends but honestly, I am not really looking for another guy friend I am looking for someone to love.

I will keep ya'll posted with the findings. In the mean time- HAPPY DATING!

Love Ya!

V