This year has been very fun, so far I am a fan of 2012!! The last couple of weeks I have had some interesting conversations with the guys I have been out with. The guy I thought was going to be too boring has proved to be just that. Not boring like a drag but more so there just isn't a spark. We went on our 2nd date and the movie kind of sucked so on the way out he was like, "I'm sorry that was lame, please let me make it up to you!" Sure, why not? He drove me home and we didn't kiss. Just hugged. On the drive home he mentioned a few times that he would definitely make it up next time. So mid week comes around and he sends me a text asking if I was free Saturday night. I say maybe and ask what he had in mind? Being that he was planning to make up for a lame movie I was relatively interested in what he was going to say. He then comes back with this- "A friend of mine is doing a reading with some other authors about marriage." Oh Lordy! You have to be fucking with me right? Oh no, not even a little. Seriously, you lost me at marriage. No part of a book reading on the topic of marriage sounds remotely fun to me! Okay it's one thing to put this out there on a random Tuesday. But it's another to hype out this date and then come through with something even lamer than the last.... I ended up having friends in from out of town- or so I said. The guy is great with conversation and is super nice so I went out with him one last time- because he said my favorite word- Sushi. I said yes to his dinner invite to have some good food, a little sake and with the hopes that maybe a hint of undercover coolness might surface. Unfortunately it did not. I let him know ahead of time I had birthday plans with friends around 11pm. He was cool with making it an early one. What sucks the most is I am in an uncomfortable position now. It would be rude of me to blow him off but I don't want to make a date with him just to tell him I don't want to date him!! Grr... What to do? Here are my thoughts on the subject of ending things with someone: If you haven't had a heavy make out session then it is still appropriate to end things via text message, blow off, or phone call. Thoughts on this anyone?
On a completely different note there is another guy I have also been talking to. He and I had a very interesting conversation the other night. This guy is totally cool, pretty cute, and super fun. We have hung out a few times at this point but have not slept together. I am not one to just give it up these days. In the search for mister right I find myself dating too many men at once to be giving it up to just anyone. I have to really be into you, or really drunk. So we were on my couch and he tells me he doesn't want anything serious. Okay I can dig that because I don't know if I want anything serious with this guy. I am not completely sold on him. He is a great kisser and super fun but the list of annoying qualities is rising each time we hang. Here is the funny part about that conversation. Immediately after he says that he doesn't want anything serious he tells me he also isn't cool with me sleeping with other guys. Say What? Let me get this straight I say. "So you don't want to be with me and yet you don't want me to be with anyone else?" Really guy? Do you hear yourself speaking right now? But this was an honest request from him. I just looked at him and said "let's wait till we decide to sleep with each other before we make the rules." Fuck guys are very weird. I'm just saying. That is so hypocritical and selfish. You want me all to yourself while at the same time not giving anything in return. Oh well better luck next time I guess. I don't know if I will go out with either of those guys again. Maybe I will but that's only because a girls gotta eat!!
Happy Dating Y'all!!
